A little bit of myself lately

Yesterday was my friend Peter's birthday , he turn 23 this year, I ve no idea what kind of celebration will be in Germany, but I believed it is definately fun & joyful celebration.

I wish him a very happy birthday, may all his dream come true.

p/s : Happy Birthday my friend , also named Peter, he turn 34 this year (28July) , wish him all the best too , he is a great podcaster, visit his website at : http://www.ohmypod.net/podcast/

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These days I ve been through lots of bad things, my forehead was injured, end up with a hidious scar, permanent damaged i called it, no significant improvement on my diet,some arguements with my family , again, well, "thats not big deal", I keep telling myself this, how pathetic..

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Yeah, my life will still go on, I will soon turn 35 in less than 2 months, maybe I should start to think about some changes of my life in order to live happier, simplier. Thats my goal right now. Wish myself good-luck ! obviously I need to smile more from now on..

How to control a person's temper ?

I realized that I had a bad temper or with another word, un-controllable temper & emotional nowadays. People in my community used to say, person who is at their older age, they became heinous if they dont get married, a weirdo !?

I don't know, but I so want to control it but the thing is, I felt regret only after my temper had exploded.

This is bad, really bad ! Hm.. I think I should do chanting & repenting more.. hehe.

他不爱我

当他不爱你的时候，你便无法成为他心中的惦念。即便他知道你深爱他，他也宁肯选择装作是不知道。因为他不爱你，你的痴恋，你的真情，你的傻便永远换不回自己心灵上渴求的温暖。

当他不爱你的时候，请不要在你不开心，烦恼或者思念的时候去打扰他，他那儿绝对不是你此刻应该的去处。也许他会在接到你电话的时候，淡淡地安慰你几句，却也仅此而已。

当他不爱你的时候，你的爱，你的人，就会显得廉价许多。他不会太多地去考虑到你的感受，至多不过是找几个不是很高明的理由来搪塞你。请不要真的去相信，不要骗自己。

当他不爱你的时候，请不要与他讲你的琐事，即便此刻，你不过是希望让彼此更熟悉一些。
只是，他却无暇更没有兴趣去了解你，你的生活，你的过去，你的长处短处与他又有何干？没有爱，于是你注定挤不进他的生命。即使你要的哪怕只是一个很小很小的角落。

当他不爱你的时候，请不要在他的面前情不自禁掉眼泪，不要在生病的时候告诉他。他无法给予你想要的照顾和关心，至多不过是同情一下而已。
骄傲的你，请不要放弃本来属于你的骄傲。要记得，只有爱自己的人，才可以真正地去疼惜你，而不是他所能给的旁观的同情和怜悯;

当他不爱的时候，你的爱便是他的负担。请不要去计算自己的付出，不要希望有什么回报。爱着不爱自己的人，本身便是没有回报的。其实，爱一个人，对一个人好，本来就是一种本能。只是对不起，他对你没有这样的本能。

当他不爱你的时候，请不要失去自己的自信。爱一个人，并非欣羡于他的优秀，而只是一种感觉。他不爱你，并不能说明你不优秀。优秀，不是爱的理由。

当他不爱你的时候，也一定要祝福他。有了爱，便不该有恨。爱是美好的，恨却丑陋。也不要觉得不公平，关于失去，他失去的是一个深爱他的人，而你失去的是一个不爱你的人。要记得，失去了他，你却得到了一个重新生活，重新去爱的机会。

当他不爱你的时候，亲爱的，请你深深呼吸，然后轻轻拥抱一下回忆里的温暖，轻柔地凝视凋谢的温柔。


~感谢COOLCAT的提供

Trip to Genting Highland

I went to Genting Highland with my co-workers. We had lots of fun there, I ate alot too, hehe.

Attached a mp4 file, a Thailand cultural dance performace held in the hotel,very nice costume & outstanding performances, enjoy ~ !

click & download the below :

Thai Cultural Dance.mp4 (61MB)

Meet up with online friends

A special gathering plus a birthday party held in Kuala Lumpur. I was one of the guests invited by Jess (she celebrate her 21st Birthday). The foods were nice & luxurious, she even spare her own room to us, however, 4 persons including me ends up a sleepless night there cause chatting, I m a good listener & a bad speaker, I don’t talk much but enjoying listening to their interesting experiences instead. How wonderful to meet up with them, knowing each other through online is amazing.

狗狗遗爱人间

我的狗狗昨日偷溜出去，被一辆驶得很快的车撞死了 ！ 真的是青天霹厉的说，我都要哭死了，都未见最后一面就。。

生命很无常啊，到了这地步，我惟有含泪的接受这事实，永别了，狗狗，我会为你诵经，愿你早日脱离六道，生往极乐净土。

初九天公诞

昨晚和家人有些口角，为的是不能接受我的新型像而抗议，对这些封建的思想感到无奈，就静静的待在房里不出来，就连午夜12时的天公拜拜仪式都放弃了。今天到外省上班，在吃中饭的时间赶去了附近的商场买望远镜(看星星之用)，好不容易在不超时的情况下回到公司，哪知同事竟说忘了告诉我刚刚我到过的地区有静态超牌行动，所有超速的车辆稍后都会收到罚单。。

你有听过香港市民常说的一句话“睬屎”，就是那种睬在软棉棉的东西上，那恶心和极讨厌的感觉，我现在的心情就是如此。

不知是没拜拜所以遭到惩罚的厄运还是自己倒霉所至，没想到新年十五未过，我就经历这些发霉发臭的事件，还有更糟的事在等着我吗？有的话，就请赶快一一登场吧，速战速决不是更好吗

My New Idol ~ Nick Lachey

Nick Lachey is a popular guy. Girls want to sleep with him, and guys give him the ‘thumbs up', after all, he did marry Jessica Simpson.

After 7 years in the multi platinum band '98 Degrees', Nick is certainly no stranger to the Music Business, even though he is mostly known for co-starring in the MTV reality series ‘Newlyweds' with Jessica Simpson. Now, he will star in his own MTV special which will follow him as he makes and promotes ‘What's Left Of Me'. It's Nick's turn to tell his story. Embracing the ‘new' ways of the music industry, the single ‘What's Left Of Me' will be available on download from June 5th, and the album will be released on August 7th.

‘What's Left Of Me' says it all, he is ready to move on. Producers eager to lend their talents to the album include Dan Muckala (Backstreet Boys), Marti Frederiksen (Aerosmith, Pink, Sheryl Crow, Mick Jagger) and Anders Bagge (Jennifer Lopez, Madonna, Jessica Simpson) to name a few! Unsurprisingly with this line up, the album is full of hits!

The album has been received with open arms in America, where is has just entered the Billboard Chart at number 2, and the single is number 1 on aol music. Nick is hot property, not just for his celebrity, but now for his music. Expect the same here, there's more to Nick Lachey than Jessica Simpson.

Biography written by 98° Music, Inc.Nick Lachey was on summer break from studying Sports Medicine at Miami University in Ohio when he got an invitation from a high school friend to join an up-and-coming vocal group in Los Angeles. Nick had always been torn between his loves of sports and music, but it appeared that music would win out this time. Shortly after joining Jeff in California, Nick realized that his friend, Justin, and his brother, Drew, would fit perfectly in the group. A few phone calls, several plane flights, and thousands of driving miles later, the 98 Degrees was formed.

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Name: Nicholas Scott Lachey

Vocal part: Second tenor

Birthday: November 9, 1973

Sign: Scorpio

Birthplace: Harlan, Kentucky

Height: 5' 10"

Hair: Brown

Eyes: Blue

Parents: Cate Fopma-Leimbach and John Lachey

Siblings: Brother Drew, step-sister Josie, half-brother Issac, adopted brothers Zac and Timothy, adopted sisters Kaitlin and Sally

New Year Pix

Some Chinese New Year Pictures..

猪年行大运 ！ Its Pig Year

Look so fat with this traditional clothing ! very funny, Haha..